tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post8782258908367915328..comments2023-10-26T03:22:52.036-07:00Comments on whatcha ona bout girl?: Smiling faces, paintin the house, and the social contractUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-53790010197578139112009-11-15T06:02:49.696-08:002009-11-15T06:02:49.696-08:00I have found that I'm entirely too forgiving t...I have found that I'm entirely too forgiving to people who have walked all over me and lied to me. I've learned that it takes more energy to be upset with someone than it does to forgive them. However, the people who I forgive are people I know will be constants in my life and not passerby's. Does that make sense? <br /><br />Having said that, I DO NOT tolerate lying. Not one bit. My son has learned that the hard way. But, now he tells the truth, even in school. The teacher just told me that he's a very honest child. Hearing that made me feel good because he's actually applying what I've taught him. You always wonder if they're doing what you've taught them when they're away from home. Ya know? <br /><br />I kinda got off topic. <br /><br />But yeah, screw those B-itches for playing games. And that is what they're doing, playing games. No one has time for that. NEXT!Aprilhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13361464759647140359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-18189277108494095422009-11-14T07:59:51.815-08:002009-11-14T07:59:51.815-08:00@ Violent- thats too funny....I mean..im sure it w...@ Violent- thats too funny....I mean..im sure it wasnt funny to be a passenger but.... I would love to come back to florida!!! if youre ever in west va...... :)<br /><br />Heather- ok ok ok movin on... hehehe<br /><br />@ Angie- no decision is better than a bad one so I agree..take it easy...<br /><br />@ Skitzo- hmmm yeah it used to be folks had ten screw ups before I gave em the boot..then it was down to three and now.......im screening bad seeds to keep my distance!!! LOL I uinderstand though.....i think my fuse is a abit longer than it has been in the past but.......the bang is bigger....mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02794921369239550529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-26271445125129367822009-11-14T07:59:46.685-08:002009-11-14T07:59:46.685-08:00@ Violent- thats too funny....I mean..im sure it w...@ Violent- thats too funny....I mean..im sure it wasnt funny to be a passenger but.... I would love to come back to florida!!! if youre ever in west va...... :)<br /><br />Heather- ok ok ok movin on... hehehe<br /><br />@ Angie- no decision is better than a bad one so I agree..take it easy...<br /><br />@ Skitzo- hmmm yeah it used to be folks had ten screw ups before I gave em the boot..then it was down to three and now.......im screening bad seeds to keep my distance!!! LOL I uinderstand though.....i think my fuse is a abit longer than it has been in the past but.......the bang is bigger....mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02794921369239550529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-14851085953666481702009-11-14T00:46:49.769-08:002009-11-14T00:46:49.769-08:00"All anger comes from hurt"
Ever heard t...<i>"All anger comes from hurt"</i><br />Ever heard that one?<br />Trey, it seems that you and I share the very same warp-speed rate from kinda hurt feelings to anger. And anger makes it super easy to dismiss someone from my life. Not saying it is a bad thing but not saying it good either.SkitzoLeezrahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15484609726259148184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-53090557064598201362009-11-12T19:29:33.171-08:002009-11-12T19:29:33.171-08:00Well said Angie Jackson!Well said Angie Jackson!"Seattle" Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00960159169465106405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-45778656187589184282009-11-12T16:52:39.066-08:002009-11-12T16:52:39.066-08:00Just gettin caught up on my blog reading!!!!Just gettin caught up on my blog reading!!!!Julie Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01688319872727995846noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-48760413976429549742009-11-12T16:30:45.327-08:002009-11-12T16:30:45.327-08:00I can't claim I've never broken a social c...I can't claim I've never broken a social contract, in part because they're all so foreign to me growing up in a different culture. So, sometimes it's unintentional. That said, I have a huge pet peeve about lateness or people not having respect for my life/schedule. <br /><br />And hey, it is true. Quit looking so damn hard. I took a couple years off the dating scene (in my early 20s!) to work on myself and just become really cool with who I am. I've dated one guy since deciding to try out the waters again, and haven't needed to try anyone else :) Just sit back and be cool with Trey and the woman (not girl) worth being with will show up in your life.Angie Jacksonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04739748828902693432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-64509137959913599192009-11-12T16:15:54.468-08:002009-11-12T16:15:54.468-08:00Okay, I see your point. Maybe she isn't tender...Okay, I see your point. Maybe she isn't tender hearted. You know she could bethinking like some guys do...maybe she just wants in your pants! LOL ha ha .oh sorry. in any event...move on Trey...move on...show's over...nothing to see here. She's not worth you getting disgruntled about."Seattle" Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00960159169465106405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-15131457146592081682009-11-12T15:03:32.526-08:002009-11-12T15:03:32.526-08:00sounds like we had the same dad... mine would get ...sounds like we had the same dad... mine would get drunk, grab a semi automatic, get behind the wheel of an rv and shoot up an the woods from the road as he swerved around... <br /><br />yep, with us in the back. real fun guy. <br /><br />but hey, you are right, you can learn a lot from ppl like that... what not to be.<br /><br />your posts never fail to make me smile, trey. i like you.<br /><br />if youre ever in florida...Robynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15674791257112254258noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-50264122756762220552009-11-12T14:50:27.517-08:002009-11-12T14:50:27.517-08:00@ Gray- see? some people are at the point where ...@ Gray- see? some people are at the point where ONE lie sends the whole thing in the toilet.. Im a live and let live kinda guy.... i set up a few boundaries..when those are passed (you get SOME leeway) you get the boot..no remorse...no explanation either. I truly dont feel im harsh on this...courting is a time of openess and disclosure ya know??? its when your comportable that you let yourself out nd someone else IN....when I see a woman trolling , she doesnt put herself up..its all show...no substance just tailfeather shaking to get attention.......failmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02794921369239550529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-38282794019524346802009-11-12T14:41:59.597-08:002009-11-12T14:41:59.597-08:00@ Violet- yeah the lie thing is deal breaker...i ...@ Violet- yeah the lie thing is deal breaker...i cant stand trolling then complaining that you cant find a good man.....<br /><br />@ Kimberly- Yeah Im kinda where russell hammond was in "almost famous" when he says he only wants something "real"mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02794921369239550529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-14681724676442513662009-11-12T14:32:59.800-08:002009-11-12T14:32:59.800-08:00@ Shelly- I guess were all on different time fram...@ Shelly- I guess were all on different time frames.... LOL I know timing is important...but im getting the impression the older i get that people make themselves LESS available...but expect their partners do be MORE..does that make sense??? that math doesnt work for me...i put my shit on the table....it seems like people enjoy hovering...but landing is a different story....<br /><br />@ Heather- then she should say "I dont like to read" as opposed to "I will" if the shoe were on the other foot she wouldnt want me to say yes and really mean no....I whoudl send you the transcript of emails from this girl..... she wants my attention and praise but gives back nothing..... no deal<br /><br />Im glad yo have that switch that cuts people off..i think thats important....let the losers of the world unite..just keep them away from me!!!!mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02794921369239550529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-54576918769753498842009-11-12T14:22:28.093-08:002009-11-12T14:22:28.093-08:00I am really big on do what you say, don't play...I am really big on do what you say, don't play games with me. I don't have the time nor desire to. So I completely understand your social contract. Lie to me once, forget it.Cala Grayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18046583130740952177noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-70081831170389423952009-11-12T13:36:55.589-08:002009-11-12T13:36:55.589-08:00Social Contracts - love it. Never thought of it th...Social Contracts - love it. Never thought of it that way.Kimberlyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09076194149640604198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-30017844095368175562009-11-12T13:04:18.611-08:002009-11-12T13:04:18.611-08:00Seems to me the ones who say they hate drama are t...Seems to me the ones who say they hate drama are the ones who SEEK it. There's no avoiding drama - if you are going to engage in relationships with other human beings, you're gonna have drama. It's the level to which you let it escalate and how you handle it that counts.<br /><br />Lying is the ultimate killer for me, too. I can forgive most things but once trust is lost, it is never really regained.Violethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12609573058587275879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-41390750833208157652009-11-12T11:49:33.186-08:002009-11-12T11:49:33.186-08:00Everything happens for a reason...if it's good...Everything happens for a reason...if it's good or bad...it makes us who we are. You learn from those experiences and it looks like you have learned from yours...on occasion. <br />However, with that being said. I still stand by with what my mother used to say to me. "When you stop looking for love, love finds you." Sometimes you just have to stand back and roll with the punches. <br />I've written people out of my life...friends and family because once you've crossed me...you're done. So I can relate. <br />However did you ever think that maybe this girl that you were trying to get to "read" your blog...perfers not to read?"Seattle" Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00960159169465106405noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2654541435495484359.post-50680782663874868112009-11-12T10:39:28.582-08:002009-11-12T10:39:28.582-08:00I never make promises I don't keep. I would n...I never make promises I don't keep. I would never ever tell someone I was going to meet them and stand them up. That is chicken shit. However, I would tell someone the exact reasons why I couldn't meet them if I was having issues in my life. I don't consider this standing a person up though. This might sound bizarre but I believe timing is everything. How about you?Shelly Rayedeanehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04110822096599541854noreply@blogger.com