whatcha ona bout girl??

whatcha ona bout girl??
A retrospective on the inner workings of love, flying pancakes, mensa disasters, dandelion cookies, number bending, super salt, bubblegum oysters, chicken spit, crystal kidneys, guerilla carrots, polychromatic tofu, paraphysics, tender vigilanties, black sand, phillastine placebos, wood soup, buttered shuttlecocks, apostrophe training, fish whips, bleeding speed, plastic fantastic lobster telephones, venus drug rehab, clowns on fire, kiosks on a leash, marshmello overcoats, bottled light, fried blood, unbridled hyperthyroidism, folding wine, amygdula tickling, fainting in coils, hamburgers for the apocalypse, plastic memes, and conjugal fritters.....well...the love parts true

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Hitch, the past and letting go

I was watching the movie Hitch this weekend….hehehehe My earlier post expressly says that I don’t like chick flicks but I had my reasons!!!!….There was a great line in it though…. “to know where your going you have to know where you’ve been”…most would agree with that I think.

With love though people tend to be negative about that though….”I wont fall in love again” or “Im going to protect myself next time” . Hello? Doesn’t that smack as an obstacle to having a relationship? That’s what love is. Letting go. I have had relationships that I called off because I knew I would never get that persons guard to drop….. I definitely learned something…. If you cant let go ..you’re wasting your time… If your partner can’t let go….your still wasting your time…..
I guess you have to let go before you can go asomewhere..... make sense?