There is a great line from favorite album of mine “when in doubt ….Bogart”. Which means take charge. I have to laugh because I have heard a woman’s response to those actions in the line “are you sure you know what youre doing?”
I get confused when I see guys sit and watch sports all the time. I’d rather play than watch. Besides, a woman wants a man that can do not watch others fix the car, lay tile, or clean the bathroom. I think women work especially hard these days…..they have a lot on their shoulders. Why would they want a slacker for a partner? It just means they have to take care of a loser in addition to managing their own affairs.
I like being in control. Not controlling.