I had a great normal childhood that did NOTHING to prepare me for marriage. The fact that all men are way behind women on this issue is a great source of frustration for those brides who weren’t aware they were marrying a thorough idiot. So it’s somewhat of a surprise that after a few years women realize the hubby is forgetful, selfish, and controlling. Coming soon to a fairytale near you? The big D…….
Men never sign up for second place …let alone last…… so its really a source of frustration for us to be told “the kids come first”. That’s very much a given for women who have been playing babies and house since they were young and dreaming of all the gifts a home brings. While your doing that , know what were doing? Throwing rocks, throwing footballs, learning to be aggressive and take charge….. my instructions on marriage consisted of “son….hand me that wrench”.
Hehehehehe I can laugh about it because I’m lucky. I understand that being in control doesn’t mean control your partner. Being in charge makes a woman feel safe and secure and that doesn’t come from telling her where she can go and what she can do. That’s a sign of insecurity.
Kinda like a whip. You could really hurt someone with it but used the right way it just might do some good. We are told to take control over our emotions, our bodies, finances, work......you get the idea? The problem is that some men dont know how to use the whip the right way.....Go easy on us......you mature faster than us and I rather like the thought of young untainted love.