whatcha ona bout girl??

whatcha ona bout girl??
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Thursday, December 17, 2009

Parade rain, sour grapes, and PD's of A


Cool dude. I like to see people happy. What a good feeling. Ya know?? Gonna speak ma piece here. Its probably gonna hit some folks the wrong way. So….be prepared!! And I have to admit I don’t like being the voice of dissent because I really have a problem with letting people around me down, or alienating them because my thoughts are a bit different. Yeah dude that just gets me down. If youre sellin sour grapes.....I'm not buyin. I tend to try and see those things that we have in common because for me there is comfort in that. REAL connection is almost a drug…… ya know? Nothing feels as good as when I GET YOU…… Connection to someone else is very satisfying. That’s why communication breakdown and failure is interesting to me………Now I can’t take credit here.

There have been times in my life
I've been wondering why
Still somehow I believed
We'd always survive
Now I'm not so sure

Public displays of affection. Im ……for it. Sorry. Go ahead. Say it…..…..Say it……. .EEEYOO……. YUCK……..GET A ROOM……DO THEY HAVE TO DO THAT? …..IM GONNA BE SICK……
Yeah, Yeah….I get your point. …. I think….. You have sour grapes and would rather rain on someone’s parade cuz YOUR love life sucks………..haha …wait ….what?...... That wasn’t your point? I missed it?
Ok then what WAS your point? …..that….they ….just….um…shouldn’t…….um……do that….in public…yeah…...YEAH, That’s my point!!! Because……..because….I shouldn’t have to see it!
Lemme hang it out there. If you have a problem with that then………I agree….you have a problem. They don’t. Do you think for half a second that two people deep in love give a flip about what you don’t care to see? Case closed.
Excuse me for having feelings. I mean...my love life might suck too..so I understand ...but you dont see me raining on someones elses parade.
I talked to a guy the other day and asked him how his marriage was going……to my discredit I half expected the typical answer. Instead I got “ Good……..its good…..I mean ..we have our differences …but the good times far outweigh the bad”. SCORE dude. A drink of the good stuff. I was glad for them, ya know??? Love??...PASS...sour grapes?...FAIL
I spend A LOT of time in the gym. Its trash talk and testosterone on the football field. Head butting, shut the F(&^ up and HIT somebody……hurt them if you can mentality. I’m a running back so I’m THE target. So I welcome a taste of the good stuff.

Are you gonna wait for your sign, your
miracle
Stand up and fight
This is it
Make no mistake where you are
This is it
You said that maybe it's over
Not if you don't want it to be
For once in your life, here's your miracle
Stand up and fight
This is it

Bring it…………bring that connection that only love brings. I understand if you have sour grapes over hearing about other peoples bliss…its hard when the love train isn’t stopping in your town... but to me sour grapes is really just wine in disguise. Your time will come. Nothing makes me happier than to have someones head on my chest …all curled up where the two of us fit together from head to foot. Real intimacy doesn’t come along very often…. Yeah I’m a sooooper genius…But every day you pass that up……when it shows up.….. Cuz your stubborn, protective, scared even…….makes me want to frown. I know it can be hard to be flexible but …. just don’t hand me sour grapes. Instead I’d rather you be ready…..
Cause its hard to beat love in the shower while you drink southern comfort from my hand. Whats wrong with red, white, or a merlot?....nothing…. ill be happy to take a shot of Jack if you promise not to bring sour grapes…….another round for the house ifya please!

18 comments:

Seneca said...

I couldn't agree with this post more. I didn't really have an opinion about PDA's, except when couples put their hands in eachothers back pockets, that just seems tacky and awkward to me. Then I got a bf. It seemed whenever we were in public all I could see was him, everyone else disappeared. After we broke up I felt like Tom from 500 Days of Summer and was repulsed by all PDAs, even hand holding. haha haha it was hilarious.

f1trey said...

@ Seneca- LOL funny how that works!!hehehe

Miss Angie said...

I don't know... Even when I'm happy and in love there's a limit to the amount of PDA I can tolerate in myself. Hand holding, a little kissing, hugging, cuddling, that's all great... Nasty groping and making out in public? Sorry, not me...

I don't really rain on other peoples parade when they're doing that though, but I do giggle a little!

:D

Kimberly said...

Fill my glass up please.

f1trey said...

@ Angie- I understand! cant we all just get along?? LOL

@ Kimberly- atta girl! cheers!

Robin said...

OK ..it doesnt really bother me when its like...light..but to get really into it...no good...for myself or others....and yeah..I Like ..action flix......and loincloths...etc...!!

Gray said...

I think there are varying degrees of PDA. Holding hands, stealing kisses okay. Tongue down each others throat, spinning lovey dovey, spare us. Though I have been a culprit a few times. *shame*

The Invisible Seductress said...

There is this great little Christmas town square I pass almost daily. At night with the lights and music it is a lover's mecca. I sigh and smile for those visiting it. It's time to swirl your arms in the air like a crushing teen aged girl more often. Pass me a swig because in my eyes being lost in somebody is never a bad location to be found.

f1trey said...

@ Robin- I need to get that on DVD myself! cool movie!

@ Grey- hehehe I understand...I just let lovers be.....even if its outa hand!

@ Invisible- good call....he said...brushing the peanuts off his shirt....

Tuesday Kid said...

I really agree with this post. It's time someone said it.

f1trey said...

@ Tuesday- I know folks (some followers here even) that just LOSE it when they see people being affectionate in public.....
but I just am not built that way...... the world could use a bit more amoure......

Just telling it like it is said...

I'm totally in for public displays of affection...oh its no like you can't tell right...I went out to eat with logistic guy and my face was stuck to his...I know way to much...then we went to his room!!

SkitzoLeezra said...

Not into PDA but amused when couples jam their tongues down each other's throats for 45 minutes and later ask "what are you people looking at" when they've made themselves a spectacle.

MariLou Silverman said...

I like PDA, but no tongue please, lol. yes, putting my hands inside his back pocket, inside his front pockets, resting my hands on his thigh, and his on mine. Kissing, touching, luv it.

f1trey said...

@ Just- LOL I knew youd be for it! it seems its all over the board for the answers on this one..ps Im surprised you came out of the room in the first place! LOL

@ Schitzo- I guess im gettin old im never around young enough couples to see that!

@ Malou- i suppose there is a boundary for public viewing..... but I knew youd be practicing some pda for sure!

honkeie2 said...

oh this sounds like me like 12 years ago. I lived in the gym for almost 4 years after my first divorce, but better times do come. I hated being home so I used work and the gym to stay away. The gym was my drug, and man do I miss it.....

Carolina Girl said...

Sadly, no snow :( Just 4 inches of nonstop RAIN. If we get snow, I will shout it from the rooftops...trust me, you'll hear!! hahaha :)

PS I like PDA too! Not gross all in your face PDA, but some is fun. And when you are in love, you just can't help it. It's sweet.

SKB said...

Someone I know ::wavewave:: is and always has been for PDA's, just not the grotesque, prolonged tongue, fun-bits groping; another regimented, career someone I know was not. Not tongues, not fun-bits, not holding hands, not hugs, not kisses, not arm around each other/shoulders/etc. I never did understand that. Maybe those are the folks whose mom's didn't hug them enough as children...? =D